Is an AI girlfriend private? 8 things to check before you start

Chats with an AI girlfriend can get personal, so privacy matters more than with most apps. Before you sign up anywhere, check these eight things. They take five minutes and tell you a lot about the company behind the app.

1. Who runs it, and where

The privacy policy should name a real company with an address. A company in the EU must follow the GDPR, which gives you clear rights to see, export and delete your data.

2. Is your chat used to train AI?

Some services use your conversations to train their models. Look for a plain statement that your chats are not used for training — by the service or by its AI providers.

3. Can you delete a chat — everywhere?

You should be able to delete a conversation yourself, and the deletion should also remove what she remembers about you, on every device.

4. What does she remember, and where?

Memory is what makes her feel real, but it should be limited. A good policy says what is kept (your first name, plans) and what never is (for example sexual or health details).

5. Tracking and cookies

If the site shows a cookie banner with dozens of "partners", your visit is being sold to advertisers. The best case is no advertising or tracking cookies at all.

6. What appears on your bank statement

Ask how the charge is labelled. A discreet descriptor matters if you share an account or a device.

7. Notifications that don't give you away

Push notifications and emails should never show what she wrote. "New message" is enough.

8. Age verification done properly

In some countries an age check is required by law. It should be done by a specialised provider, and the service should only keep the result (passed or not) — never your face scan or ID.

How Velvra handles it

Velvra is run by a company in the EU and follows the GDPR. There are no advertising or tracking cookies, and your chats are not used to train AI models. You can delete a chat from the chat menu, which also removes what she remembers about you on all your devices. Notifications never contain what she wrote, and age verification keeps only the result. Read the full privacy policy.